In my world, Wednesdays are perfect for wings at Wingstop. I call ahead to my neighborhood location and order 10 barbecue, 20 lemon pepper, one large fry with 2 dips. The wings on Wednesday are 1/2 price so all that usually comes to $22. Woo hoo!!!!!!!!
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This is one of my guilty pleasures in life. When I was a kid, we would go to the candy lady and get these among other things. Everyone doesn’t make them with that perfect candy taste EXCEPT my peeps at Sticky Fingers Apples! They cost $7.45 per apple but hunny, when you see it, it’s worth it! They make other ridiculously scrumptious delights too like caramel, M&M and sprinkled apples. You’ve welcome! LOL
Pic courtesy of the website stickyfingersapples.com.
CDs, what’s the song that comes on that makes you say….”Oh snap, that’s my song!” It can old or new.
This is a new one and it’s just a really feel good song with a great message, relationship wise.
****Post your Wednesday Jam below for us to listen to.****
Avery Sunshine, “Call My Name”
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Phee, this chick right here is so underrated. I love some good r & b music.
Jazmine Sullivan “Forever Don’t Last”
KT
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I absolutely love all of their videos! They are so cute and have fun together. How sweet! Enjoy! #reallove
This really annoys the hell out of me. Especially when it comes to the sex thing. A man will call a woman a ho for sleeping with him, but he will turn around and sleep with two more women that same week and he will be a player. Straight bullshit.
If a woman is confident about her sexuality, her sensuality, and not afraid to speak about them she is looked upon as a slut and over-sexed. Then if a woman meets a guy and decides to give up the draws, he looks at her as a piece of ass. Really? No, she was horny, wanted some “D” and got the D.
Now, don’t get me wrong, I’m not advocating that men and women should be screwing like rabbits, but if a woman chooses to do so, she shouldn’t be referred to as a ho.
What exactly is a ho anyway? In case you didn’t know, it’s slang for whore. A whore is a paid for providing services of a sexual nature. Male or female. That is the oldest profession that ain’t going anywhere. Sometimes you think they may have it right? Everybody else is boning for free. Nah, that leaves too much control for the buyer. No, thank you.
Then there is the married couple. How many husbands have cheated on their wives and are forgiven for their “little” indiscretion, but as soon as the wife cheats or thinks about cheating he calls her a slut, wants to whoop her ass, or wants to leave. Now who is weak? Men can’t take the same treatment at all.
A woman who has the attitude of the meme below is still considered taboo in most circles. She better not speak about it. She better not speak about about wanting the cocoa stick period. She watches porn? Ho. She buys toys? Ho. She masturbates? Ho. She craves sex more than her dude? Ho. That’s stinking thinking right there. It’s unfair.
I hope someday we can be looked upon as equals, but until then I will continue to not give two shits about their opinions and live my life as I see fit. Being uninhibited sexually can be a freeing thing. Some people should try it. They’d have less medical issues. 😉
This is just one wack ass double standard, what are some others that you are familiar with? We’d love to hear from you. 🙂
KT
After having sex with the same person for years, you start realizing you’ve developed some boring patterns in your sex life. It’s with recognizing the signals if you will be having sex that night, how freaky it’s going to be, will lights stay on, will your mate make it last forever and ever like Keith Sweat sang about in the 90’s, etc… You go into it with the same expectations and sometime the same old moves.
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Sometimes in our relationships we forget about the passionate ways we used to make love to one another. The way we used to touch, kiss, rub, lick, and hold each other. Also, the way just looking into each other’s eyes made you believe every promise they spoke to you. So what do we do to rekindle that fire? How much or how little you have to do will depend on your mate and your current emotional relationship.
Fullfiguredever.com
As we know men are visually stimulated, so for some men all you need to do is buy some sexy lingerie and it’s on like popcorn. As a matter of fact, buy some anyway. My friends used to laugh at me because I’d search eBay for new lingerie. Look, I’m cheap and they were selling them for under $5 internationally. Now, when you’re a plus size girl you have to be careful not to purchase Asian sizes, but I still have all of my pieces to date. Lol. The way it feels against your skin and how sexy it makes you feel is amazing.
Womenshealthmag
Try new positions. I’m that chick that gets bored very quickly. So, I look for new positions all the time. You think you know them all, but every now and then you find something new. Whether you Google it, view porn, read a book, just find a way to get new info. Do that thing you only do on birthdays and anniversaries more often. I’m sure he’d enjoy it.
Womenshealthmag
Introduce toys. Some guys are completely turned off and/or intimidated by toys. So, you have to trick them into it. Typically if you give them some amazing head or drop that new position on them, they will let you do whatever you want with that cocoa stick. 😉 They just may like it.
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Role-playing. You can do so much with this one. Trusty eBay can help you with props and costumes for the low. It can be a lot of fun. Get crazy and over the top with your ideas. Think about what he would like and even prepare a little striptease. Make it a surprise. Try to stay in character, but if he grabs your booty and places you on his lap just roll with it. Lol
Fun times. Cocoa Drops, only you know what your dude will respond to so don’t be afraid to go all out. Exude confidence. Know that you are sexy. And use that sexiness to blow your man’s mind!
Cocoa Drops, tell us what you would do or have done to rekindle the fire?
KT
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