This really annoys the hell out of me. Especially when it comes to the sex thing. A man will call a woman a ho for sleeping with him, but he will turn around and sleep with two more women that same week and he will be a player. Straight bullshit.
If a woman is confident about her sexuality, her sensuality, and not afraid to speak about them she is looked upon as a slut and over-sexed. Then if a woman meets a guy and decides to give up the draws, he looks at her as a piece of ass. Really? No, she was horny, wanted some “D” and got the D.
Now, don’t get me wrong, I’m not advocating that men and women should be screwing like rabbits, but if a woman chooses to do so, she shouldn’t be referred to as a ho.
What exactly is a ho anyway? In case you didn’t know, it’s slang for whore. A whore is a paid for providing services of a sexual nature. Male or female. That is the oldest profession that ain’t going anywhere. Sometimes you think they may have it right? Everybody else is boning for free. Nah, that leaves too much control for the buyer. No, thank you.
Then there is the married couple. How many husbands have cheated on their wives and are forgiven for their “little” indiscretion, but as soon as the wife cheats or thinks about cheating he calls her a slut, wants to whoop her ass, or wants to leave. Now who is weak? Men can’t take the same treatment at all.
A woman who has the attitude of the meme below is still considered taboo in most circles. She better not speak about it. She better not speak about about wanting the cocoa stick period. She watches porn? Ho. She buys toys? Ho. She masturbates? Ho. She craves sex more than her dude? Ho. That’s stinking thinking right there. It’s unfair.
I hope someday we can be looked upon as equals, but until then I will continue to not give two shits about their opinions and live my life as I see fit. Being uninhibited sexually can be a freeing thing. Some people should try it. They’d have less medical issues. 😉
This is just one wack ass double standard, what are some others that you are familiar with? We’d love to hear from you. 🙂