I’m a serial monogamist and I’m always looking for things I can do better in my relationships.
This article made me realize I have a lot more work to do with my words. I started off holding everything in and then 8 years ago I ran into a partner that made me open my mouth in defense and I haven’t stopped talking since.
I think all of us have said one of the following…
It’s not my fault
I’m sorry but…
According to Rachel Grumman Berman, these are some of the 7 things you should not say in a relationship.
She says with these words you put your partner in defense mode automatically. I understand that. When I say whatever, it makes people so mad (hee hee) because I have checked out at this point.
Communication is soooo important and maybe this can help you in your relationship along with me in mine. If you care that is! Ahhhhh, I was deep just then. LO
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